“I love the Lord because he has heard my voice and my pleas for mercy. Because he inclined his ear to me, therefore I will call on him as long as I live” (Psalm 116:1-2).
Are you a fixer? When a loved one comes to you for emotional support, do you try and share what you think would be a good solution to their problem? It is normal to feel uneasy when someone we love is in pain. A typical response would be to try and find a way to make them feel better. Thus the race to find a way to fix it begins.
For many of us, the holidays are a time of excitement, joy, and activity. Often there’s an increase in social events with co-workers, friends, and family. Some just can’t wait to decorate, bake and shop.
And then there are some who find the holidays especially taxing. Have you’ve lost someone this year and it just doesn’t feel right to celebrate? Or, has there been a divorce, and you’re learning how to develop new traditions and it is just not the same? Maybe you realize there’s a bit of family dysfunction and you just dread that Thanksgiving turkey with the side of tension.
It is possible to put it into place beforehand.
Here are ten tips to not just survive but thrive this year’s holiday season: